5  Ways Girls Test a Guy to See How “Desperate” or “Needy” He Acts 

By Bobby Rio & Rob Judge
Creators of:  The Scrambler

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  1. aaron
    2 years ago

    holy shit… so true. Never thought about it that way, but the girls i got the most obsessed with were the ones that used to drive me crazy with hot and cold behavior. Like they were toying with me. And I knew it, but couldn’t help myself.


  2. rick d
    2 years ago

    good stuff guys. definitely agree with what you’ve said. And had a big “aha” listening to you explain the process of falling in love. gonna test this stuff out


  3. jake
    2 years ago

    SPOT ON!


  4. Ghostrider
    2 years ago

    Haha! Yup, too available fucked me over before I could fuck her all too often back in the day.
    But it taught me a valuable lesson. Women like a man with a purpose, with a passion. Now that I have SOOO much going on, I’m naturally too busy, with higher priorities, and don’t have to pretend!
    Cool shit dudes! Great advice. Learned soooo much from you both 🙂


  5. Fozzy
    2 years ago

    goddamnit. if i had seen this fucking video like one and a half months earlier i would have been fine. UGHHHHHHHHH. but thanks for the awesome perspective. much love for the great advice.


  6. SF
    2 years ago

    I am late 50s. Been around the block many times. Dated a lot of women. These two guys are right on target.

    It is sad though that these types of strategies are necessary to date successfully and that you have to play all these idiotic games with women.


  7. Karl Yegurvich
    2 years ago

    Sadly this stuff is very true. Girls really love to play these mind games. A girl I really liked before used to not really pay me much mind when I used to try to text her a lot. So I got aggravated and lost intrest, and started to talk to her less and only see her whenever I had nothing to do at all during the day. This drove her nuts towards me and wants to get involved in almost everything I do now.


  8. Jenna
    2 years ago

    I am a girl and I can conclude that this is entirely true. I never thought about it like that before but that is definitely what happens.


  9. Mark H
    2 years ago

    Such Great advice. Wish I had known this secret a long long tiome ago. Thanks guys.


  10. Jonathan
    2 years ago

    I am 41 and I was never taught this. No wonder I have not found her.


  11. Jerome
    2 years ago

    My mind is blown. I understand a lot more now. I liked playing my cards right. and was always the nice guy with my previous girl friends. Now i know why they didn’t stick around. I gave them to much of myself. Next time i’ll play my cards differently. Put her to the test.


  12. Jon
    2 years ago

    OMG this is SO true. I didnt even realize this till now but this has been the case for all my relationships.


  13. greg
    2 years ago

    great stuff.


  14. mike
    2 years ago

    good stuff


  15. eddie
    2 years ago

    this is good stuff


  16. Big D
    2 years ago

    Good points for sure…and to take it to another level…(and maybe they mentioned this and i missed it)…the more confident and “attractive” the woman is the more conscientious you have to be of this…if she is the kind of girl that is ALWAYS getting a ton of attention you don’t want to get in with all the other guys who are all fighting for her attention…you just want to bait her up…then make her pursue you…just like they were saying…


  17. colin byrne
    2 years ago

    Sounds great. Confirms a lot of what I’ve expected. Eager to learn more guys.


  18. Jay
    2 years ago

    Cheers for the tips guys


  19. Simseth
    2 years ago

    when a girls says Im not gonna hook up with you tonight, just smile and says something like wow get your mind out the gutter I just wanted to kiss you. Then use the kiss to transition so foreplay to get her in the mood for sex.


  20. Dave
    2 years ago

    “I’m not going to hook up with you/sleep with you tonight” has always been my favorite thing to hear on a date. I’ve heard that countless times and I’ve slept with every girl who’s ever said it to me.


  21. Brian
    2 years ago

    When we push her away it creates an empty space between us and her that draws her toward us, like a magnet. The more you say no to a woman, the more she’ll want in. We pursue that which retreats from us, after all.


  22. Jose Cespedes
    2 years ago

    I liked this girl in a bagel cafe…I told you the story, I saw her by the mall where I work, asked where have I been….I returned today, she was too busy or don’t want nothing to do with me anymore. I don’t want to appear needy to her block wall, I blocked her from my Facebook page. A girl at the mall which I broke the ice by getting her a water and the other day I stopped by briefly she was dialoging fresh with me, meaning a cool open ending, later when I was leaving she said goodbye and to have a nice night, I guess she is something worth having, though we don’t know each other, I’ll get to see her next week, she works the kiosk booth in the mall, in front of my work place…how cool is that!!!! I think she thinks I am a sales associate….that day I decided to clean the store’s mirrors, I noticed she wasn’t busy…I think she noticed without a doubt. She was being hit on too before that, she’s quite slim, but cute and friendly. I know how to proceed.


  23. Stan
    2 years ago

    makes sense


  24. Terry Seaton
    1 year ago

    I’m 64 and not looking, but the thing I noticed about this video is that the presenters are talking about girls and boys, not women and men. That is the problem after high school, some people remain girls and boys. My advice is grow up and stop playing games.


  25. John
    1 year ago

    Good imfo,girls do this all the time to me, aahhhaa sense, now i know . I can have more fun with this..with girls.


  26. Jake
    1 year ago

    Sweeet!


  27. Joni
    1 year ago

    Stay cool, be confident, be prepared for anything, and go with the flow.


  28. danny
    1 year ago

    ha……..pretty cool stuff! Been there and i have done this!


  29. EM
    1 year ago

    Terry Seaton, things aren’t the way they used to be…us men have to catch up with these girls – and nearly all are girls – not mature women. We have no choice.

    Good video & advice.


  30. Bernd
    1 year ago

    Opened my eyes.


  31. JEFF BRINKLEY
    1 year ago

    very cool


  32. John
    1 year ago

    I see…Now I know how to get the girl of my dreams 🙂


  33. jasonlyle
    1 year ago

    The problem is, I feel girls are over analyzing everything. If we wanna talk about being “real”, then why have these “tests”? why do they have the liberty to validate guys? why can’t it be the other way round? I mean why have it at all to begin with?

    Girls wanna test us to see if we’re who we are, yet we struggle in understand why it’s so hard to get into a relationship. Think about it for a second, just forget about the tests and find out about each other throughout the journey, instead of using methods to siphon out characteristics which aren’t necessarily true at the moment in time.


  34. gary
    8 months ago

    I’m 56 and this happens to me all the time even now ,I’m looking for the one but its the ones I want the least are the ones wanting me ,the ones I’m trying to get closer to , to see where its going to go are doing just what you say ,and then theres ,one I know want more but I just cant find my way to give in


  35. Rick
    7 months ago

    Wish I had seen this before I met this girl.


  36. admin
    7 months ago

    so true


  37. xavier
    7 months ago

    Great! I’m going to start being an “A-hole” no more mr. nice guy, thanks guy’s!!!


  38. JayboB
    2 months ago

    While, I still think it’s stupid that ‘women date assholes’ this was the first really good explanation of why.