By Bobby Rio
Co-creator of: Magnetic Messaging: Secrets of the Key Lock Sequence
One of the most frustrating things is when you get a woman’s number (and she seems to be totally into you) … But then after a few texts she seems to lose interest, fizzle out, or go cold.
The natural reaction is to blame the woman. “She’s a flake…”
But if you do that, you could missing a giant chink in YOUR GAME that is easier to fix than you think.
In fact, if you’re like most guys then you’re probably just making one (or a few) of these common ‘texting’ mistakes that will kill your chances with a girl.
Mistake #1: Sending “Needy” Texts
Let’s start with the first two.
“Are you mad at me?”
“Are you ignoring me?”
If a girl hasn’t responded to one of your texts and you send her either of these…
You’ve just dug your own grave. Because your chance with her is just about DEAD.
Here’s the danger in those texts:
You come across as insecure, NEEDY, clingy, and repulsive in just about everywhere. Both of those texts hand her the power on a silver platter.
And once she’s holding the power, her attraction for you begins to plummet.
Mistake #2: Confusing Responses for Attraction
Before you’ve had your first date with a girl, she won’t feel much of a connection to you. As unfortunate as it may be, you’re probably not the only guy texting her.
See, a common mistake most guys make when they’re texting a girl is that they mistake responses for attraction. Often when a guy is getting a response from a girl, he believes that he’s getting closer to getting her on a date or to seducing her.
The exact opposite is true!
The more texts you send before meeting up with girl means the less of a chance you have of actually meeting up with her! That’s right: even if a girl is RESPONDING to your texts, you’re not getting yourself ANY closer to actually getting her out on a date.
Instead, say more with less. Whenever you’re considering what to text a girl, see if you say it simpler, with less text. Most guys send pointless texts to women like, “How’s your day?” or “Enjoying the warm weather?” These texts DO NOT bring you ANY closer to a woman! They just beg for a response (which doesn’t mean anything).
To make sure you NEVER again waste texts on pointless chatter, ask yourself this golden question: How is this text bringing this girl and I closer to a date?
If your answer is simply “to get her to know her better,” erase the text. It’s not going to help you.
Mistake #2: Not Conveying “Fun”
And until it seems FUN for her… she’s probably not going to bother meeting up with you.
So when you send boring texts that don’t display any personality or don’t elicit any emotions in her… in her mind you’re not worth the trouble of meeting up with.
Here are some signs you’re NOT being fun:
Remember, every text you send should make you seem like the FUN OPTION. The escape from her boring day.
Mistake #3: Having Long Text Conversations
Texting should be the “Super cool” cliff notes of a normal conversations. Meaning leave out the formalities.
The longer the conversation the more chances to mess things up or run into awkward confusion.
Every time you pick up the phone… jump right into the good stuff. Start with anecdote. Start with a teasing nickname. Find a way to quickly spark an emotion and get her paying full attention to you.
In this new video just released I explain how you can (and should) accomplish everything you need to accomplish with just three simple texts.
Mistake #4: Becoming too “Predictable”
Lets say that you’ve now succeeded in getting up a date with a girl. You may think you’re home free when it comes to texting, but there’s still some things you need to keep in mind to ensure you CONTINUE to see your girls.
First, you never want to fall into predictable patterns. Lots of guys use the same jokes, same questions, and same texts over and over. While it may be easier to fall into “complacency” with a woman you’re dating, don’t do it!
Instead, break things up with some spicy ever once in a while. Tell her you have a “surprise” to show her later. Tell her something reminded you of her, but don’t tell her what it is right away. Ask her to send you a funny picture of something (or send her a funny picture of something).
Keep her guessing what your text will be and you’ll keep her interested in you. Moreover, keeping the “spark” of a relationship alive is very important when it comes to creating a great sex life.
As long as you don’t become ultra predictable, you should have your girl texting YOU asking YOU when you’re available to hang out.
So now that you know the big mistakes you need to avoid its time formulate a solid game plan.
In this video you’re going to learn how to turn your phone into a magnet… by using a specific sequence of texts called: The Key Lock Sequence.